My mood was spiralling downwards faster than the devil going to hell. Wow I know how that looks but i couldn't describe it any better. Thank goodness for Kimmie http://theserendipitycafe.blogspot.com/ who lifted me out of the dark today.
It doesn't take a lot to make someone else's day really.
It may only take a little time & patience but it can make the world of difference
What might seem like a nice little gesture to someone, may be feel like
a new beginning, sunshine through the blinds or
a way out of the darkness for others.
Kimmie you have inspired me to get out of my dark mood today, you showed me that people do care for others even when we haven't even met each other.
I was reluctant to share my weekend dramas but I feel i might so i can move on to the next step in my life,
it all started with my dad...........
My dad is suffering an illness and recently i decided to move
closer to his home town to see more of him and to also try and take some
of the load from my sister who has been a great support to both my mum & dad
when I haven't been there.
I was thinking a lot about the trip over to see dad & mum again soon when
I chose to write a comment on facebook
A day spent with dad................Priceless
To my shock !!!!!!!!!!
My darling step daughter who lives with her mum decided
the comment was meant for her
as she had chosen not to come to visit her dad AGAIN this weekend.
Of course she commented back rather rude comments and the rest is history !!!
It was decided between darling daughter, her mum & darling hubby of mine that the comment was definately intended for darling daughter.
I know what you are thinking.........
i must be mad...
How can I say that or even think it.........
AND the story goes.........
Daughter (16)has given dad an altermatem unfortunately and he has to make a choice.
Right now he is doing just that!!!
Deciding within the comfort of his dad's home(3 hours away)& with the support of his sister, whether or not he'll leave me or not.
He said he'll tell me his decision tomorrow.
I made a big mistake that I have avoided over all these years & that was
TO TALK TO HER MUM
Again thanks Kimmie
for the award because It'll will keep me going until he decides if i am worthy
I 'll pass it on as soon as I can